How To Approach Girls

If you’re reading this right now, I take it you’re looking for tips on how to approach girls.

I’m glad you’ve found this site.

I’ve been on both sides of the coin.

I’ve been the guy that got stuck in the friend’s zone time after time.  I’ve been the guy that couldn’t attract a girl if his life depended on it.  I’ve been the guy that’s felt completely hopeless.  I’ve been the guy that has no confidence in himself at all.

On the flip side, I’ve also been the guy who’s been able to take home countless women effortlessly.  I’ve been the guy who’s been able to choose the girl I wanted to take back to my place.  I’ve been the guy who’s been so full of hope that he feels like he’s about to explode.  I’ve been the guy who’s confidence has been rock solid.

I prefer the latter.

Through my experience with learning how to attract women, I’ve come up with three concrete, unshakable conclusions:

1. Learning how to approach girls is the FIRST IMPORTANT skill you MUST learn when starting out at getting better at attracting women.

 

2. You MUST KNOW the principles you need to follow and complete after you have successfully completed the approach (the principles that will eventually either get you laid or get you a new girlfriend).

 

3. Trying to learn too much at one time will only lead to you not taking any action towards actually achieving your goals.

I’ve read every book imaginable about how to attract girls.  I’ve seen almost every video and I’ve listened to almost every audio from all the so-called “gurus” out there.

Let me let you guys in on a little secret.  Almost all of the material you will read about attracting women is the same stuff you’ve read, heard, or seen hundreds of times before!  It’s only presented in a different way.

I knew this from the start, but I still caved in and bought all of the “new” attraction books, videos, and CDs that came out — only to realize that all I had been doing was wasting precious time trying to learn things I already knew and not going out on the weekends and approaching women.

There’s no price you can put on experience — actually getting out there an working on approaching girls.  Ask all of the guys who are amazing at attracting women and they’ll tell you the same thing.

It wasn’t until I put an end to all of the constant studying of hundreds of products that I actually began to see real results.  Results that ultimately ended with me finding the girl of my dreams — my current girlfriend, Mikka.

What did I do that improved my ability to pick up girls so much?  It’s simple.

I focused on learning the methods and principles of two books, and two books only.

One book focused completely on how to approach girls (IMO, the most important skill you can learn as far as picking up girls is concerned) and one book on what to do after you approached the girl.

If you’re interested, you can click here to check out the book on approaching women

Or

You can click here to check out the book that shows you what to do after the approach

These two books (guides – as I like to call them) literally changed my life.

I studied the guide on how to approach random girls (The Art of Approaching Women) and really concentrated on following the steps in it.  I remember that first weekend I went out.

I came home with three girls’ phone numbers.  Man…you would’ve thought I had just won the lottery I was so excited.  That glimpse of success really got me motivated and I started approaching girls as often as I could.  It didn’t matter where I was at.  In the checkout line at the grocery store, in the vet’s office, at work…anywhere!

I had gotten to where I was getting good at how to approach a girl, and I had even brought two girls home with me, but I was still lacking a little in creating attraction in girls that made them fall head-over-heels for me.

That’s when I turned to guide two (Magic Bullets).

And everything blew wide open from there.  Over the next few months, I started fine tuning my skills at attracting women, using Magic Bullets as my guide.  I started bringing home girls left and right and I was making new friends practically on a nightly basis.

The rest is history.   My life completely turned a 180 and I ultimately ended up dating the girl of my dreams (and still am).  Guys, my life couldn’t be better than what it is at this moment.

To briefly summarize this article…

I’ve seen the ups and downs of learning how to attract women.  I’ve been the guy who couldn’t get a girl to save his life, and I’ve been the guy who could pick which girl he wanted to take home for the night.  I’ve studied just about every guide on learning how to attract girls imaginable and I’ve realized that it’s not about the most information you’ve learned.  It’s about using the little bit of information you know.  That’s why I stopped trying to learn everything at once and solely focused on learning, and putting into action, two guides that had been proven to be successful.  I learned their ideas, principles, tips, and strategies, went out and applied them, and I began to be able to pick up girls on a regular basis.  For months I enjoyed selecting which girl I wanted to take home with me, until I found my dream girl and started dating her.  We are still together, and we couldn’t be happier.

Click here if you want to learn more about The Art of Approaching Women

Click here if you want to learn more about Love System’s Magic Bullets

There’s no better time to start learning how to approach girls than now.  But the question is…where do you go to start meeting women?

The broad answer is…ANYWHERE!!

No…really.  You can pick up girls just about anywhere you want to.  The mall, grocery store, bowling alley, in the checkout line, at the bar, at church, etc.  The list is endless.

I could stamp this post as being done right now…but I’m not.

While it’s true that you can approach girls just about anywhere, there’s still this little obstacle in every guy’s way when their first getting started at learning how to attract women.  It’s the confidence issue.

Confidence in actually walking up to the woman and starting a conversation.  Confidence is speaking to this beautiful woman in earshot of others around you.  What will they think about me?  What will she think about me?

The best defense is to simply not care what others think about you.  But, you and I both know that that’s just not gonna happen.  At least, not in the beginning.

Therefore, I’ve compiled a list of places to approach women that will best fit you when you’re first starting out learning how to approach girls.  These places should give you a fresh starting point on practicing your approach while not making you feel so damn uncomfortable.

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If there is one universal principle that should be followed, no matter what your approach is in learning how to approach girls, it is the principle of not hesitating.

What do I mean by not hesitating?  Exactly that!

When you see a girl that you’re attracted to, or interested in, march your happy ass on over there and talk to her!  Don’t think about it.  Don’t get inside your head.  Just walk up to her and at least say HI.

Hesitation is the most vicious villain a guy learning how to attract girls can have.  It breeds doubt, and multiplies that doubt every second you don’t approach her.  Don’t allow yourself to be paralyzed by fear when you see someone you’re attracted to.

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Let me officially welcome you to How To Approach Girls.

I created this website to help you out.  Why?  Because I’ve been there and I’ve done that?  What do I mean by “there” and “that”?

There = lonely and confused as to why in the hell I didn’t naturally know how to attract women.

That = got off of my ass and actually focused on getting good at approaching women and attracting girls.

I’m gonna tell you point blank…this whole pick up game is not NEARLY as hard as some guys make it out to be.  I confess I was more than a little worried about how difficult it was going to be and how much embarrassment I was going to face.  I SO overestimated it!

Sure, I hit a couple of roadblocks when I was first learning how to approach girls, but they were very small and didn’t even slow me down.

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